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Don't Judge a Book by It's Cover -- Shelly Bright March 06 Speech 3 |
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Mr.
Toastmasters, Fellow Toastmasters and Special Guests! These shoes are not cool.
This shirt is too long. That
sweater doesn’t match my pants. Oh my, I can’t fit into this outfit any
more. Anyone who has school aged children has likely experienced this panic in
the morning at some point in time. Or,
perhaps you experienced it yourself when you went to school. There is a simple way to remove this frustration and to change our school
systems for the better all at the same time. One solution that helps alleviate
conflict, save money, relieve parental stress and improve student esteem,
pride and performance. What’s that one magic solution? School uniforms.
School uniforms, you say?
Well, before you sign me up for the local Socialist Newsletter hear me out. My
reasons for School Uniforms runs the gamut from psychological to economical to
practical to educational. First off, if we want to
teach kids that “it’s what’s inside that counts”, why not help them
learn that lesson by emphasizing their character
not their clothing. This helps kids to judge each other by who they are not
what they wear. Kids today have a hard enough time coping with their
existence. Why add to their stress by forcing them to compete in the fashion
Olympics every day. Clothing creates separation between children. Our goal with
our youth should be to create community not separation. Uniforms will help
children to look at each other as people not mannequins sporting the latest
style. Critics will scream: you are
taking away a child’s individuality! Of course individuality is
important. But let’s be serious. Trendy, fashionable clothes are are not a
sign of individuality… they are a sign of sheep following the flock. True
individuality is determined on the inside. By your words,
by your actions. Relying on looking good in their clothes gives kids one less
reason not to excel in other areas of their lives. As writer Quentin Crisp once
said, “Fashion is what you adopt when you don't
know who you are. “ We need to inspire, to cultivate the other
positive talents and attributes of our children. As we all know, when a person
loses one of his senses his other senses become stronger. The same is true for
clothing. When clothes are taken out of the equation a person’s other
attributes are forced to rise to the surface. Personality, love, kindness,
intellect, creativity. These are the
attributes of individuality we need to nurture in children. We need to teach
that individuality comes from the heart and brain not from the closet. My second reason for School
Uniforms. Let’s give parents a
break. The early morning crisis of “What
do I wear?” is a waste of time and effort. Parents are supposed to be raising
children not fashion models. Parents should be spending their time teaching kids
the most important lessons in life. “That
Ralph Lauren and Gucci do not go together” is not one of them. Let’s
give parents one less thing to worry about….And one less thing to pay for.
Fashionable clothes can be ridiculously expensive. One study showed that most
families spend an average of $500 or more a year for non-uniform clothing per
child. It was estimated that, on
average $300 would clothe that same child with uniforms.
That 40% savings could go a long way to paying for more important family
needs. Next let’s look at the
educational impact of school uniforms. Does it really affect performance? Does
it create a safer environment in school? Does it create more school unity? Yes,
Yes and Yes. When Long Beach Unified School District adopted their mandatory
school uniform policy, attendance went up. Why? Well believe it or not, there
were actually kids staying home from school because they didn’t have the right
thing to wear. And if they weren’t absent, they were often times tardy because
of time wasted picking out just the right outfit for school. As for safety,
since the adoption of the policy in Long Beach Unified, school fights and
muggings went down 50%; sexual
offenses declined 74%. the crime rate
on Kindergarten though-8th grade had decreased by 86%. Uniforms also helped to prevent
trouble-making outsiders from coming onto campus undetected. Overall,
Administrators felt that the use of school uniforms has resulted in more
children coming to school and studying in safer environments. You can’t argue
with those kinds of results. And what about school unity
and pride? Uniforms can create a
better sense of unity, camaraderie and school pride among children. With
uniforms, kids feel they belong; they are part of something greater than
themselves. When all students can
look at each other as a part of a team rather than as individuals just out for
themselves, the school environment can’t help but change for the better. Lastly, what about respect
for school and for education? Proper uniforms would indicate that for students,
school is a place of respect and formal learning. Imagine a world where
children no longer judge each other by what they wear.
Imagine eliminating one more item for conflict between parent and child,
students and classmates, teachers and parents.
No need to imagine.
Here is the simple solution.
copyright, Shelly Bright 2006
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